I’ve been thinking about all these insights I’ve talked about concerning the promoting industry when I realized that in reality the first and foremost thing we should all be promoting is ourselves. Personally first and professionally second, because you can’t have one without the other. It’s got to do with vision, law of attraction, desire, and whatever other name you want to give it. We are what we want to be, we are where we want to be, and we do what we want to do. We are the ones who should be helping ourselves improve. Which is why we are responsible for our image and how the rest of the world sees us; we are responsible for our reputation.
It’s funny but it makes me wonder how come people usually tend to victimize themselves against life and for what happens to them, or in this case, how others perceive them. Please, do realize that you have a great deal of “guilt” in this. I believe that first you have to be in alignment with yourself in order to have the rest of the things in your life straightened up. Contrary to what the majority hasn’t realized as they give more importance to their work environment, how they perform and deliver results, professionally network, etc. and then you find out their personal lives and relationships are a mess, they have no idea of what happened and on top of that they complain about their situation and are completely surprised.
I would recommend first acknowledging that there’s not much difference between the professional and the personal environment, the same “rules” apply to play the game. Secondly, remember that as a human you will always have the power to choose, decide, and set the direction of your course. It’s not like others do it for you, or that life pushes you. A responsible attitude towards the actions we take, whether good or bad, will determine how you react in front of the hardest obstacles, the point of view from which you interpret things, and if you decide you will be your own promoter or you will be the complainer that watches the movie pass by.